Transformative divorce mediation keeps you in control of the process and the outcome.

A transformative mediator will support you in discussing with your spouse whatever you disagree about or are uncertain about. You choose the topics, including: whether to get divorced, creating a parenting plan, dividing property and debts, planning for child support or spousal maintenance, handling the bureaucratic process of finalizing the divorce, how you'll treat each other in the future, and whatever else seems relevant to you. This approach usually leads to both people feeling like they've taken good care of themselves and each other; and it supports healing of any wounds connected to the divorce. The legal process, if you choose to finalize a divorce, becomes a simple matter of completing some documentation; and the heart and soul of the agreement has been created by both of you.

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"Thank you so much for your help. Your kind and gentle style has been an essential ingredient to our non-adversarial divorce. You allowed us, and especially [my wife], to show sadness and feelings, and at the same time, gently kept a focus on the financial aspects of a fair and equitable settlement. Quite a difficult job and you are very good at it."

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